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An Ethical Dilemma...What Would You Do?

Once upon a time, there was a wishlisted book...a fairly heavily wishlisted book to be more honest. As the days passed, the fairly heavily wishlisted book was not offered up for mooching (as fairly heavily wishlisted books are often wont to not be) and I had resigned myself to a lengthy wait for said fairly heavily wishlisted book to become available.

Then it came to pass that the book, even the same fairly heavily wishlisted book for which I had been and still was so desirous, did become available...and my heart leapt to see it so become...so much so that I did quickly select the "mooch" option only to be told that the tome in question, being that selfsame fairly heavily wishlisted book which I did mention in the afore, was no longer available.

Oh, horror! Oh, wailing! Oh, knashing of teeth! (Ok, it wasn't quite as bad as all that, but it was a disappointment) I then ventured a peek at the book page to see who the self-serving, book-steal...er... the lucky moocher was when, what to my wondering eyes should appear but a little red...I mean...the fairly heavily wishlisted book was "available" (but reserved) in MY COUNTRY!?!?! I cursed the rotten luck and was about to perform some nefarious voodoo ritual when I realized that the moochee was one with whom I was familiar, and I knew that heavy books (and the fairly heavily wishlisted book which I have now mentioned more times than is necessary by anyone's count is certainly that..."that" being heavy), were routinely available from said owner only within the confines of the owner's country of residence (which, incidentally, was (and is) also MY country of residence...did I mention that already?).

Putting two and two together (my momma didna raise no dummies), I resolved to wait greedi...er...patiently to see if (as I was most certain would be the case) the mooch might be rejected, thus opening up an opportunity for me to pounce on it ("it" being...you guessed it... the fairly heavily wishlisted book).

I was so waiting when, to my utter astonishment and dismay, I was asked by the #^!%$*{@#$%...um...fortune-blessed moocher to, in my role as a Bookmooch Angel, help procure the...wait for it...fairly heavily wishlisted book (hee, hee) in the case that her ( the moocher was a "she") request was rejected.

Then to add spice to the curry...the fairly heavily wishlisted book again became available (my math/deductive skills had not failed me...it had indeed been rejected) and I was first on the scene to snatch it up.

Now...what to do with it? Do I keep the fairly heavily wishlisted book in my own well-deserving hands or do I send it on to a les...another well-deserving moocher and hope to have it become available again someday? Thoughts?

(PS - I have already made my decision, but would like to hear your opinions)

Rebel Sun
13 years ago

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sorry...forgot to say that this is not really a "reading" book...more of a reference/text book.
Rebel Sun
13 years ago
I think I'd drop a note back to the person requesting you as an Angel saying that in this case you are unable to help them as this is also a book you have wishlisted and have been waiting for, but also offer to be an angel for any other book you can help with.

I don't think you should feel obligated to get the book on their behalf.

Rob

Rob
13 years ago
I hear what y'all are saying, but in the back of my mind there is that little annoying voice that says, "she beat you to it", and then wanted it enough to go about trying to arrange for an angel to grab it if she were rejected. I might well have done the same, despite the condition notes saying "I will not send this book abroad". The karmic imps in my psyche are quoting the golden rule and threatening me with reincarnation as a hyperopic banana slug if I give in to my lesser demons (OK, that might be overstating things a bit, but you get the picture). I guess I feel like I have to go with what I would want someone else to do for me if I were in her shoes.
Rebel Sun
13 years ago
I hear you Dan. And agree with you....
I would do the same.
Michelle
13 years ago

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