I ordered a book back in Feb. and the person accepted the mooch. But she hasn't sent the book. She's been on many times since then and have even sent out books that were requested after my book mooch request. I sent a reminder 19 days ago. If I cancel, would the account be cut on vacation or is that only if they don't accept? Just wondering.
If you wait long enough, i.e. 6 weeks after you last contacted them, you'll see a button labelled "forced receive". Then you'll get your point back and they'll be put on vacation. So you'll see that button in another 4 weeks, if you don't do anything else. If you contact them again, it will only turn the clock back to the beginning of the 6 week period.