“Of course I believe in chastity!” one of my young associates said. “But I also believe in technique. I’ve seen too many couples who started off in sexual ignorance break up completely because of sexual dissatisfactions, or bicker continually because of sex-caused irritabilities and complications. The way it looks to me, you’ve got to choose the lesser of two evils: either you botch up a crucial part of your marriage from lack of experience, or you throw out the ideal of sex as a ritual of love-union, shared only between husband and wife.” Right at that moment, I decided to write this book. Because there is a third way: a way to cleave to each other as man and wife without blundering along in total ignorance. You can read about the facts and techniques you need for sexual success and work them out as a couple inside the bounds of marriage.